What Can I Expect

On Our First Date?

Let’s start with something simple and grounding: a meal, a drink, or even a cup of tea. It gives us a moment to ease in, settle the nerves, and build a genuine connection before anything more intimate unfolds.

Treat me just as you would a blind date... except I arrive exactly as you’ve imagined and give you my full, undivided attention.

Once we’ve shared some conversation and a little flirtation, the part you’ve been anticipating can begin.

Communication is essential to a pleasurable experience for us both, so don’t hesitate to share what you enjoy. I’m open-minded, enthusiastic, and rarely say no — but if you have specific desires (no kink-shaming here!), it’s best to tell me in advance so I can make sure the evening is everything you want it to be.

Ready to request a date?

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Do you see couples or female clients? Will you see my friend and I?

    Yes, I see female clients.

    I also welcome couples and sessions with two men, accepted on a case-by-case basis (custom rates apply).

    And yes, I do connect with other providers.

  • Do you have a deposit policy?

    For dates over 3 hours or outside my standard travel radius, a non-refundable deposit of 25% is required.

    I understand that life happens and things do come up that you can't always plan for. If you need to reschedule, your deposit will transfer to a new booking within 1 month as long as I receive 48 hours’ notice. Cancellations made with less than 48 hours’ notice will result in the deposit being forfeited.

  • Do you accept gifts?

    Gifts are always appreciated but never expected! If you’re in a giving mood, here are some suggestions:

    - A sweet and fruity bottle of white wine (moscato is my go-to)
    - Fun and colourful crew socks (I’m a woman’s 9)
    - Beck’s Broth salted caramel hot chocolate (scroll to the bottom of the page to find a retailer)
    - A gift card to Spaudrey or Odd Duck (I love supporting local whenever possible)

    Want to give me something more extravagant? Know my birthday is coming up? Feel free to ask me what I would like.

  • Why do I need to provide screening information?

    For two reasons: safety and chemistry. It is a date, after all, and great dates start with trust.

  • Am I able to extend the length of our date?

    If my schedule allows, absolutely. Please have the additional amount ready.

  • Can I make an outfit request?

    Yes you can. If I have it in my wardrobe, I will certainly wear it for you. If I don’t, you are welcomed to buy me something you’d like to see me in.

  • How should I give you the investment?

    If we’re meeting at accommodations, you may leave the consideration in plain sight on a table at the start of our date. For public meetings, an unsealed envelope inside a card, book, or small gift bag works perfectly.

  • How tall are you?

    I'm roughly 5’5.

What are you waiting for?

Get in touch, you won't be disappointed